Everybody has goals. [Sometimes we call them dreams, until we commit them to paper.]
I don’t know you (or maybe I do?), but I am sure what is your most important, ultimate goal.
YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY.
Am I correct?
Of course I am – everybody wants to be happy.
That is where the trick is – what being happy means to you?
Sometimes during a conversation with friends, conversation about life, everyday things, kids, family, etc., I ask this question:
“What would you like to get from life?”
Answer: “Oh, I don’t know, I just want to be happy”.
So my next question is: “What would make you happy?”
Answer: “I don’t know”
!!!If you don’t know what makes you happy, you will never, ever achieve happiness!!!!
Let me say it again: If you don’t know what makes you happy, you will NEVER, ever achieve happiness!!!!!!!
From today, your most important task is to find out what would bring you happiness in life – without this you are going nowhere.
Define YOUR OWN HAPPINESS.
Do not look at other’s lives.
Do not compare. […and do not judge either]
Do not guess [yes, this “I guess I would like…” part]
Do not wonder [this ”I wonder, if this or that”…]
Find 10-15 minute every day in a quiet place and think about yourself – what would truly, unconditionally, really make you happy? Without knowing this, you are stuck in one place. [Usually in a place which you don’t want to belong to]
After defining your own happiness you can make a plan to achieve it.
Decide today, that you are going to define YOUR OWN HAPPINESS and then you will take action every day to achieve it.
From the moment you realise what HAPPINESS means to you – this becomes your ultimate goal.
The goal, which you are going to achieve. And you will achieve.
But you need to know what it is…
To your happiness…