You can have everything what you want in life. Of course this will not happen overnight. If you wish you can sleep over things and tomorrow everything will be bright, you are wrong.
Anything you are not happy in your life now, only you can change. But that means having an outcome in front of you, then creating a plan, taking action and a lot, a lot of hard work.
Do not be like Alice in Wonder Land:
‘Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?’
‘That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,”’ said the Cat.
‘I don’t much care where—‘ said Alice.
‘Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,’ said the Cat.
Remember, YOU CANNOT HIT THE TARGET YOU CANNOT SEE. And you cannot hit the target if you do not take action.
You need to discipline yourself to do the things you don’t want to do. You need to break bad habits and form new ones. It is said that it takes about 21 days to formulate new habit. I will say it is even longer, but it is only you who has control.
Get over your shoulda/woulda/coulda whirlwind and decide what you want in life and what you need to do to get there.
As Yoda in ‘Star Wars’ once said: ‘Do it. Or do not. There is no try’.
And I will say even more:
- there is no ‘I should’
- there is no ‘I could’
- there is no ‘I would’
There is only a’ MUST’
If you want to change your life, just do it. Start now, today, this moment.
If you are not willing to take action – stop complaining and blaming everybody else, but you.